Brigitte Macron Addresses Age Gap Between Her and French President Emmanuel Macron

Even before Emmanuel Macron was elected president of France, his relationship with wife Brigitte Macron has been the object of close scrutiny and an exhausting amount of ageism due to the fact that Brigitte is 24 years older than her husband. Although Emmanuel spoke out earlier this year about the double standard that makes his marriage a topic of discussion, as opposed to that of Donald and Melania Trump, who have the exact same age gap between them (but in reverse), Brigitte has stayed largely silentâuntil now.
In a new interview with French Elle, the French first lady reveals that she was putting her own happiness ahead of the rest of societyâs opinions when she decided to pursue a relationship with Emmanuel, whom she met while teaching drama at his high school, according to Elleâs translation. âThere are times in your life where you need to make vital choices,â she said. âAnd for me, that was it. So, what has been said over the 20 years, itâs insignificant. Of course, we have breakfast togetherâme and my wrinkles, him with his youthâbut itâs like that.â
The 64-year-old added: âIf I did not make that choice, I would have missed out on my life. I had a lot of happiness with my children and, at the same time, felt I had to live âthis love,â as PrĂ©vert used to say, to be fully happy.â Of the increased speculation her 10-year marriage received throughout this yearâs election, Brigitte said, âI ended by telling myself, OK, I do not take it well, but I have to deal with it. After, it will pass.â
Shortly after his election victory, Emmanuel, 39, spoke out against the misogyny he and Brigitte have endured, as well as the ârampant homophobiaâ inherent in speculation that heâs gay and his marriage is a sham. âIf I had been 20 years older than my wife, nobody would have thought for a single second that I couldnât be [an intimate partner],â he told Le Parisien. âItâs because she is 20 years older than me that lots of people say, âThis relationship canât be tenable.'â
Unfortunately, this isnât the only sexist incident Brigitte Macron has had to deal with since entering the public eye alongside her husband. Earlier this summer, when the Trumps met up with the Macrons in France, President Trump interrupted his own conversation with Emmanuel to turn to Brigitte and offer his totally unsolicited opinions about her appearance, saying, âYouâre in such good shape,â and then adding, âBeautiful.â
And just last week, Brigitteâs attempts to take a more active role in her husbandâs administration were shot down when the French government decided not to give her an official political title, budget, or salary. Although some argued that elevating the first lady position from an honorary to an official one smelled a lot like nepotism, others believed that refusing to give Brigitte official powers was a misogynistic attempt to keep her in a subordinate role to her husband.
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Brigitte Macron, Carla Bruni, and More: A Brief History of Franceâs First Ladies and Their Front-Row Affair with Fashion
First lady from 1969 until her husbandâs death in 1974, Claude PompidouânĂ©e Cahourâwas instrumental in founding the Centre Georges Pompidou, the contemporary art museum in her husbandâs name. A noted patron of the arts and avid fashion lover, she was also frequently spotted in the front row of shows like Chanel (pictured here, Spring 1979, with Bernadette Chirac, wife of then-Paris major Jacques Chirac) and palling around with designer Karl Lagerfeld.
In addition to her public support of the arts and fashion, Pompidou also experimented with her own looks, favoring ensembles by the likes of avant-garde designer CourrĂšges and Pierre Cardin and opting for then-scandalous pantsuits.
In addition to her devotion to fashion, Pompidou was also an art aficionado. She redecorated the ĂlysĂ©e Palace with contemporary, of-the-moment pieces; she and her husband regularly visited local galleries; and, a fan of the artist Yves Klein, she was also instrumental in negotiating the look of the Centre Georges Pompidou, which opened after her husbandâs death.
Pompidou and Chirac, who would eventually become first lady herself, were frequently spotted at Chanel shows togetherâas here, at Fall 1985âup until Pompidouâs death in 2007.
Following Pompidou, Anne-Aymone Giscard DâEstaing, wife of president ValĂ©ry Giscard DâEstaing (1974-1981) picked up the mantle of fashionâs first lady. Though never as much of an insider as her predecessorâand far less the art fan, as she and her husband dismantled much of the ĂlysĂ©e Palaceâs contemporary dĂ©corâshe nevertheless frequented Givenchy shows. Here, sheâs pictured with the designer Hubert de Givenchy himself, September 1997.
Though designer Jean-Louis Scherrerâs label has since closed up shop, it was a favorite of French politicians throughout the late 20th century; here, Giscard DâEstaing poses with the designer and his daughter, November 2005.
President from 1981 to 1995, François Mitterrand was the longest-serving president in French history. His wife, Danielle Mitterrand, focused primarily on human rights issues, pushing the role of first lady beyond its traditionally domestic boundsâyet she was no less chic for it, befriending designers like Yves Saint Laurent, pictured here in 1992.
Each first lady seems to have favored a particular French fashion legendâand for Mitterrand, that legend was Yves Saint Laurent. Here, she sits front-row at the labelâs Spring 1986 couture show.
And while for Mitterrand, fashion week was less of a pressing concern than for predecessors like Claude Pompidou, she still frequently attended the most exclusive shows. Here, she embraces Pierre BergĂ©, business and romantic partner of Yves Saint Laurent, before the labelâs Fall 1992 show.
After cutting her teeth in the front row as the first lady of Paris (her husband Jacques was the mayor for nearly 20 years, from 1977 to 1995), Bernadette Chirac ascended to first lady of France when Jacques was elected president in 1995. He was succeeded by Nicolas Sarkozy in 2007. From Dior to Chanel to Yves Saint Laurent, Chirac took in everything, with friend Claude Pompidou by her side. Here, Chirac is pictured with designer Yves Saint Laurent at the designerâs MusĂ©e des Arts de la Mode restrospective in Paris, May 1986.
As recently as Spring 2013, Chirac has been spotted in the front row, still posing with designer Karl Lagerfeld as if itâs 1985 all over again.
CĂ©cilia Sarkozy married French president Nicolas Sarkozy in 1996; they divorced, causing quite the scandal in France, in 2007. (Sarkozy remarried, to the supermodel and singer Carla Bruni, the following year.) But despite her short reign as Franceâs first lady, Sarkozy nevertheless found a place in fashion; here, sheâs front row with the late designer Sonia Rykiel at the Yves Saint Laurent Fall 1993 show.
After divorcing CĂ©cilia, Nicolas Sarkozy remarried, wedding Carla Bruni, the French-Italian supermodel and singer who had walked many of the same runways at which sheâd later sit front row. Here, she walks Chanel Spring 1989 during Paris Fashion Week, October 1988. (She didnât marry Sarkozy until 2008.)
Bruniâs eye for fashion was among the most remarked of recent first ladies; arriving in London for a state dinner, she wore a Dior ensemble complete with a pillbox hat that, at the time, many noted for looking like a contemporary update on the Jackie Kennedy image of a first lady.
And, of course, the selfiesâhere, with Karlie Kloss, September 2016.
Though she never married president François Hollande, who presided over France from 2012 to 2017, Valérie Trierweiler nevertheless took up the front-row place of honor occupied by most first ladies. Here, she appears with designer Raf Simons, then of Dior, at the Dior Spring 2014 show.
Trierweiler and Hollande split in early 2014; later that year, she was nevertheless spotted at all the major shows, including Diorâs Fall 2014 couture show, here, where she sat alongside the Arnaults and actress Isabelle Huppert.
Incoming first lady Brigitte Trogneux, wife of president-elect Emmanuel Macron, already has the requisite front-row credibility befitting a first lady. Here, she sits front-row at Diorâs Fall 2015 couture show.
Trogneux is nearly 30 years Macronâs elder; as has been amply reported, she was a teacher at his high school and advised him on a play when he was a young drama student. They married in 2007; sheâs still a teacher, albeit one who also lands coveted spots at fashion weekâhere, alongside actress LĂ©a Seydoux at the Louis Vuitton Fall 2016 show.
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