Tommy Dorfman on the 13 Reasons Why Phenomenon and Getting A Tattoo with Selena Gomez

The 24-year-old actor opens up about his hit Netflix show, meeting Selena Gomez, and the possibility of a second season.

Written by Lauren McCarthy
Photographs by Mitchell Nguyen McCormack

*Photo by Mitchell Nguyen McCormack, Styled by Suzi Rezler. Visual Editor: Biel Parklee. Grooming by Gina Kleinschmidt at The Only Agency. Post Production Duo Vision Studio.

It’s hard to spend more than five minutes on the Internet lately without stumbling across something about 13 Reasons Why. There are countless think pieces, take-downs, fan pages, and, yes, memes, all dedicated to the hit Netflix series, produced by Selena Gomez and based on a young adult novel by the same name. The show, which centers around the topic of teenage suicide, has quickly become the year’s most Tweeted about show since its debut in March, welcoming a new hit for Netflix, a new resume builder for Gomez, and a new star for the Instagram generation: Tommy Dorfman.

On the show, Dorfman plays Ryan Shaver, a classmate of main character Hannah Baker who is named as one of the thirteen reasons why she choses to end her life. In real life, Dorfman is a 24-year-old from Atlanta, Georgia who had just a few small acting credits to his name before he landed the role on the show. Here, the actor talks about his newfound fame, why the show resonates with fans, and how he ended up getting matching tattoos with Gomez.

Let’s start from the beginning. How did you first get started in acting?

I grew up in Atlanta as the youngest of five. A couple of my siblings were doing artistic things for awhile. I always wanted to be a music video dancer. I was like obsessed with TLC, Destiny’s Child, and 3LW. My sister, who was a musical theater geek, threw me into ballet classes, and that’s how I started. I fell in love with story-telling and performance, and went to college for acting. Then a year later, I booked this show.

What was the casting process like for the show?

I guess traditional? It was my first job basically, so I had an initial audition and then I got brought in for Ryan, because I think everyone went in for Clay or Hannah [the leads] originally, and then were sort of brought back in for other things. I had five auditions over the span of three months. They were very thorough. I think it was a big risk because so many of us [actors] are so new.

Tommy Dorfman, a 24-year-old from Atlanta, Georgia, plays Ryan Shaver on Selena Gomez’s Netflix show 13 Reasons Why Not.

Photo by Mitchell Nguyen McCormack, styled by Suzi Rezler. Visual Editor: Biel Parklee. Grooming by Gina Kleinschmidt at The Only Agency. Post Production Duo Vision Studio.

Had you read the book beforehand?

I read the book when I was auditioning, but I have a lot of little cousins who are obsessed, so I knew of the book. Around my second callback, I was like, ‘I need to read this.’ And then I got my hands on the pilot and I remember reading it and being like, ‘Holy s—, this is not a YA show.’ I mean, in so many ways it is, but there’s something really special about it. It had high schoolers doing things that high schoolers do. I never had a show like that growing up. For me, The O.C. and Gossip Girl were still these weird fantasy lands that I would never live in. I think the beautiful thing about our show, and what translated through the script when I read it, was I felt like everyone could relate. The town was just vague enough that you could put yourself there. And I think that’s why the show has been so successful.

What about your character, Ryan, resonated with you?

He’s so outspoken, and I was not that way. I definitely would have been considered an extrovert in high school, but I wasn’t outspoken and academic in the way that Ryan is. For me, it was a way to relive high school from a different perspective. I was an outcast in the way the Ryan is, but I didn’t have a whole lot of opinions of everything else that was going on. This was also the opportunity to play a gay kid in high school and not have it be about being gay. So many shows and movies that are being made today are all about coming out, which is an important story to tell and has been told, so to have the opportunity to play a character that is just comfortable with himself and advocates for gay people and doesn’t have the sort of drama…and I think Tony’s character [Christian Navarro] is like this too. He’s not self-conscious about it, it’s just part of his existence. We owe that to Bryan [Yorkey, who developed the story for Netflix] and the rest of the writers.

Tommy Dorfman, a 24-year-old from Atlanta, Georgia, plays Ryan Shaver on Selena Gomez’s Netflix show 13 Reasons Why Not.

Photo by Mitchell Nguyen McCormack, styled by Suzi Rezler. Visual Editor: Biel Parklee. Grooming by Gina Kleinschmidt at The Only Agency. Post Production Duo Vision Studio.

What was filming like, since so many of you are new actors around the same age?

The best way to describe it is like summer camp. There was nothing else to do but hang out. Everyone became friends in about week, and have remained friends ever since. It’s a lot of people going through the same thing at the same time. I came in after they had all been shooting for a month, so I very much came in as the new kid in school. Everyone had their relationships developed, and I just kind of snaked my way in. Everyone on the show is so humble and sweet and kind and generous.

At what point did you meet Selena?

I met her towards the end. She was always sort of like a presence, and she was on set for the last couple weeks of shooting. Her passion inspired all of us, especially at the end. People don’t realize that she’s a human being, so it really didn’t change the dynamic on set or anything. She’s super inspiring and has a lot of experience to share and was very gracious.

And now you have matching tattoos.

And now we have matching tattoos!

How did that come about?

It was kind of on a whim. I kind of knew that I wanted to get it and we ran into each other earlier in the week shopping. I was like, ‘Hey, I’m going to do this thing on Sunday with Alicia [Boe, who plays Angela on the show],’ and she was down. So we just picked her up and we went. We are the same age, and obviously with very different life experiences, but you kind of go through the same thing at certain ages. And that’s the same with everyone in the cast; we could just relate with each other.

Were you surprised at the tremendous response the show has received?

I don’t have the words. I mean, it’s obviously very meaningful because of the story we are telling, but I don’t think any of us knew what we were getting into. That it was going to become this…


Yes, that was the word I was going to use, but was like, ‘Can I say that?’ Yeah, I think it has become this phenomenon. The show came out at 12 a.m. on a Friday and we were all together hanging out, and when I woke up the next day, I was just like, ‘Holy s—.’ I don’t think anyone was prepared. I don’t think you can be prepared for that.

What projects are you working on next?

Well, hopefully we’ll have a season two… I think we’d all be grateful to come back for another season, and there’s a lot more story to tell beyond the book. And I have another project in development that I can’t talk about. I’m also trying to just live life. I know that sounds silly but its been a really cool change.

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